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Strap On Dildo

Strap on dildos are a great way to add spice to your bedroom play. The amazing thing about a strap on dildo is that they work with a penis or without a penis so regardless of gender there is one for you! Perhaps you want to reverse gender roles, or maybe your partner wants to explore penetration. There are even strapons that will give more length and girth to ones existing penis. Perhaps you have a double insertion dream but don’t want to bring a third person into the bedroom, with a strap on dildo, you can make just about any fantasy come true. No matter what your desires, there is a perfect toy on our website to meet your needs. If you are at a loss when it comes to a strapon we have six tips to help you get started.

Tip #1 - Select A Good Strap On Dildo

When choosing a strap on dildo, it is important to pay attention to the size. Start by talking with your partner about their desires and comfort levels. Going too big will be uncomfortable, while staying too small may not bring as much spice as you anticipated. If you have used traditional dildos before, you might consider which ones are your favorites and choose your size accordingly. For those who are going to be using a strap on and a dildo for the first time, you can gauge the size you are looking for by checking out your fridge. Look for carrots, cucumbers or other long fruits or vegetables that have the length and thickness you may like. Measure them and then select a harness and dildo accordingly.  Consider starting off with our King cock strap-on or our Sutra fleece-lined strap-on which are both adjustable and new user-friendly.

Tip # 2 - Don’t Skimp on Foreplay

Getting a new toy is sure to make you hot, especially when it is a new strap-on. Keeping that in mind paying attention to your foreplay game will ensure that your toy and your partner create a truly orgasmic experience. Let your partner lube up the dildo and get excited for your new harness to help seal the mood.

Tip # 3 - Practice With Your New Sex Toy

Any new sex toy takes a while to get used to so start practicing before you go under the sheets.  Put the harness on and adjust it to fit your hips comfortably. Spend some time caressing the dildo and practicing your strokes to get a feel for how your body will move while pleasuring your partner. A tight harness will give you great control, but one that is too tight will make your experience painful. Consider our King cock suspender system or our harness briefs for maximum comfort.

Tip #4 - Communicate

The first time using a strap on dildo will be a learning experience for both you and your partner. Make sure that you take the time to communicate with each other about what feels good and what doesn’t. Find out how deep is comfortable as well as what angles are hitting the right spot. With practice, you both will be hitting the big O more than you can imagine.

Tip #5 - Lubricate Your Dildo

Wearing a strap-on is part technique and part wetness...natural or otherwise. Making sure your strap on dildo is well lubricated with Sliquid Spark, Waterslide personal lube or any other lubricant is sure to make your toy 100 times better. Natural based lubes are better for proper slippage and a natural feel over those that are petroleum-based, not to mention easier to clean.

Tip #6 - Aftercare 

Taking care of your partner and your equipment after your lovemaking sessions are equally important. In some case using strapon dildos can be emotionally charging, especially the first time around.  Take time to cuddle and talk about your erotic adventure during this vulnerable time. After you are done with your bedroom play, it is important to clean and sanitize your dildo and harness. This will reduce the chances of any infections or transfers of nasty bacteria that tends to fester on wet things left out in the air. Our naturally fresh toy cleaner or our antibacterial vibe washare handy cleansers to have on hand.

Visit this website for hundreds of options for Strap On Dildos and Harnesses.